Wedding night in Islam

Wedding night in Islam: the first night of marriage is a dream. Like a blossoming flower, that dream continues to wear the pendant in the pre-marriage period.

Wedding night is a living horizon, and all sorts of fantasies fly across the horizon like soft butterflies.

The wedding night is sweet, and longing is cherished and fragrant. Loving and adorned with honey.

But at one end of the night, there is a dreamy horizon, but at the other end, there is hesitation and some fear.

This is Because honey night brings fulfillment of the bond that is formed between a boy and girl through marriage.

From then on, the journey of the two begins towards eternity – from the green spring of life to the dry days of old age; The grave is the ultimate path to resurrection and Paradise.

Will this journey be happy? Or will the poisonous cactus raise taxes in the next few days? How much sacrifice and patience to be on this path? That answer is then unknown.

The result is mild fear. But then, the dunes begin to coil in the chest corners.

But the hope is that it serves as a guide to the first night of marriage – that Muslim newlyweds are determined to be free from all fears and anxieties.

We are creating today’s blog about a wedding night in Islam. I hope everyone will benefit Insha Allah.

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How to enjoy the wedding night in Islam?

Every man has some dreams and expectations in his mind about marriage and honeymoon.

The realization of those dreams begins when the husband and wife meet alone in the same house on the first night of marriage.

So it is essential to prepare for the first night of marriage. The following tasks can be done in preparation.

Number one: is to remove unwanted body hair.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

”Purity is a part of faith.” (Sahih Muslim – 223)

Two: cutting off unnecessary body parts such as armpits – navel hair, nails, etc.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

”Five things belong to human nature. Circumcision, cleansing of the hair below the navel, cutting nails and sprains. ”(Sahih Bukhari – 569)

Three: Use good perfume. Fragrances have a unique ability, which will play an influential role in making your partner mentally happy.

Aisha – Radiyallahu Anha – said –

”I used to put perfume on the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). Then he would go to his wives. ”(Sahih Bukhari – 263)

Four: Buy as many gifts as possible, such as perfume, wrist watch mobile phone book, etc.

The husband may give one or more gifts to the wife or the wife to the husband or both because gifts create love in people’s minds.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 

Give your gifts to each other; it will increase the love between each other. ‘

Five: Keep some sweet foods in the collection. So that, at present, the husband and wife can put each other in the face.

This will reduce the distance between them and help each other to be more intimate.

Six: Husband and wife present themselves beautifully in front of each other. This presentation can be both physical and mental.

Physical presentation means – to appear at night after a good dress.

In this case, if both the husband and the wife know what clothes the husband likes to see on his wife or what kind of clothes the wife wants to see on her husband, she can be dressed accordingly.

And mental presentation means – having something beautiful and meaningful in mind so that it helps to increase love and serve your beautiful mind and preferences.

Seven This night is the most crucial night of life. So every word and deed of this night is remembered by all couples throughout life.

For this, both of them can plan their life. What kind of behavior does the husband expect from the wife? The wife can share what type of behavior she expects from the husband.

The first night of marriage – first words and deeds

One: to greet when entering the living room. Because salam is the means of creating intimacy and love.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said –

Translation – ”You will not enter Paradise until you believe. And you cannot be a perfect believer unless you love one another.

Shall I not tell you something that will make you love one another? (That is) spread peace among yourselves. ”(Sahih Muslim – 54)

Two: Husband and wife find out about each other’s physical condition.

Three – to admire the beauty of the wife’s form. All people love to hear their praise.

And if it happens at a particular moment, it will affect your wife more and make his mind and body cheerful.

Four: Performing ablutions for both husband and wife and performing two Rakat nafl prayers.

Rules of Prayer on the Wedding night in Islam

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No hadith has been narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) instructing us to husband and wife to pray together on the wedding night.

So these prayers cannot be called circumcision. However, several Companions have encouraged this prayer. So it can be called Mustabah.

Method: The husband will be the Imam, and the wife will stand behind him. Combine any surah with Surah Fatiha and perform it like other prayers.

It is permissible to recite aloud in any way. However, if these prayers are offered at night, it is better to recite them aloud.

If the husband is not an imam, then the wife can read alone. Or, if the wife does not read for any reason, the husband can read alone.

Intercourse on the wedding night and a guideline

One: fourplay before the start of intercourse. Embrace the wife. To kiss, Touch the body, rub the hand, etc.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Hazrat Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him):

”Why didn’t you marry a virgin? He would play with you, and you would play with him. ”

Many Muhaddithin has suggested that there is room for foreplay in the hadith.

Two: to keep the intention pure.

Pure intention means to make the intention of thawab at the beginning of intercourse. Such sins protect the character from filth. Good childbirth and afterlife liberation etc.

A Companion asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) –

”Would any of us be rewarded for having sex with his wife?

the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said,

”Do you think he would not have sinned if he had committed adultery? Then why don’t you get thawab for having halal intercourse? ”(Sahih Muslim – 720)

Three: Recite the following Dua before intercourse.

Pronunciation – Bismillahi, Alla-humma Jannibanash-Shaitana was Jannibish-Shaitana Ma Razaktana.

Translation: Beginning in the name of Allah Tayla. O Allah, keep Satan away from us. And keep Satan away from the child you will give us. (Sahih Bukhari – 141)

Four: Not engaging in sexual intercourse in a way or manner that is forbidden in Islam. Such as anal sex or intercourse during periods etc.

The first night of marriage – what to do after intercourse.

One: take a bath. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

”If the husband ascends to the sexuality of the wife, the action becomes active. Then bathing will become obligatory on him. Even if the semen does not come out. ”(Sahih Muslim)

Two: Mustahabb to perform ablution after the first intercourse has ended before starting the second intercourse.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

”If one of you wants to start having intercourse for the second time after having intercourse, he should perform ablution. It will make her second sexual intercourse delicious. ”(Sahih Muslim – 1/161)

Three: There is an opportunity to delay intercourse without taking a bath. But then it is mustahabb to perform ablution.

Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) –

”Can any of us sleep in an unclean state after intercourse?”

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

”Yes, it is allowed for him. But if he wants, he should perform ablution. ”(Sahih Ibn Hibban – 232)

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