Husband-wife love in Islam – Love is a human need. As food is needed to satisfy stomach hunger.
Similarly, love is necessary for the satisfaction of the mind. If you are hungry, you cannot eat any food in front of you.
Consuming food requires following the rules of the law. Similarly, to get love, you must accept some rules and sacrifices.
All people in the world are eager to get love. Husband and wife also want to be satisfied with genuine love from each other. But in many cases, they cannot get that desired love.
Islam has a unique guideline for husband and wife love. Marriage in Islam is not only dependent on worldly comforts, but every rule of Islam is rooted in the welfare of the world.
At the same time, in Islam, the love of husband and wife is considered the way and path to salvation in the afterlife. So Muslim married life is a unique way to be satisfied with love.
Couple love and Terrible Darkness
Terrible darkness prevails in our world today. That dark hundred porn industry. The prosperous lifestyle of western culture. Modern prostitutes with the name of nudist writers and models are spreading all over the world.
Due to this, the golden deer named love is disappearing from the world day by day. There is constant discord between husband and wife. They can satisfy each other.
Lifestyle and watching videos of Indian actresses disrupt the love relationship of husband and wife. But husband and wife was a compound name of love.
That’s why today in this article, How is the husband and wife love in Islam? I am having a substantive discussion on this. I hope everyone will benefit from reading this.
Husband and wife love in Islam – the best 8 ways for a sweet relationship
One- Both husband and wife should always be clean and chaste.
Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: ‘Purity is part of faith.’ (Sahih Muslim-223)
Because naturally people like cleanliness. So your cleanliness and purity will attract your partner. As a result, his love for you will grow.
Two – To clean unwanted body hair from both. Such as armpits, under the navel, hair, nails, etc.
These things represent your emotional taste; your partner may have a negative attitude if they are impure. It will hinder the path of love.
Rasulullah (peace be upon him) said: ‘Five things belong to human nature. Circumcision, cleaning of hair below the navel, trimming of nails and sprains.’ (Sahih Bukhari-569)
Three – Use good-smelling perfume. The fragrance has a special power, effectively making your partner happy emotionally. This will increase the love of husband and wife.
Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I used to give perfume to the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him). Then he went to his wives.’ (Sahih Bukhari – 263)
Four- Refrain from appreciating the beauty of someone else’s face in front of the partner. It may annoy the partner.
People love to hear compliments from their loved ones. Someone else’s praise may sadden him.
Five – Appreciate the beauty of the wife’s form. Almost all people love to hear their compliments. And hearing it from the mouth of his beloved will make his mind and body happy. In this, love will have many times more positive effects.
Six – Husband and wife put food in each other’s mouths. Put one’s lips on the part of the drinking vessel and drink the water with the other’s mouth.
Seven – Dust off the husband and wife game. Like boliball, basket ball, karak etc. Hug and kiss your wife occasionally.
Eight – Tell your wife I love you as much as the world. Give gifts to each other.
Husband and wife love in Islam – the best way to reach a deeper level of love
In Islam, intercourse is how husband and wife love at a deeper level. It is an effective way to reach the ultimate level of love without failure.
Through intercourse, husband and wife have access to each other. In that, they not only enter each other physically. Instead, they get a chance to enter a lot more mentally.
Then they become addicted to each other with deep love. We are discussing some of the statutory rules for the intercourse of husband and wife in Islam.
One – To keep the intention of cohabitation pure. It means to intend the reward at the beginning of intercourse.
Such as protecting character from corruption. Birth of virtuous children and liberation in the Hereafter etc.
A Companion asked the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, “Would any of us be rewarded for having intercourse with his wife?”
The Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “Do you think that if she commits adultery, it would not be a sin for her?” So why not get a reward for halal intercourse? (Sahih Muslim – 720)
Two – To always pray to maintain the orderliness of love between husband and wife. Even during sexual intercourse, one should pray. The following prayer is known as the prayer of reconciliation.
بِسْمِ اللّهِ اللّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَ جَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
Pronunciation – Bismillahi, Alla-humma Jannibanash-Shaitana was Jannibish-Shaitana Ma Razaktana.
Translation – Beginning in the name of Allah Ta’ala. O Allah, keep Satan away from us. And keep Satan away from the child you will give us. (Sahih Bukhari – 141)
Three – If you want to reach the highest level of love through intercourse, it is important to take the best seat for intercourse. In this case, each person can prioritize his convenience and desire.
Whether lying or sitting or standing. Whether the wife is above the husband. You can take asana as you wish.
In Islam, the love of husband and wife is the ideal of the Prophet’s married life.
Love of husband and wife in Islam How romantic can the love of husband and wife be? How deep and effective can it be in life?
His real example is our beloved Prophet Muhammad – Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam – and his wife Aisha – Radiyallahu Anha -.
I don’t think there will be any dearth of love in our married life if we take their lives as our ideals.
The Messenger of Allah – may Allah bless him and grant him peace – once ran a race with his wife Ayesha – may Allah be pleased with her.
Then Aisha – Radiyallahu Ta’ala Anha – ran and could not keep up with Rasulullah. He lost.
After a long time, he competed with him while returning from a battle. Then the Messenger of Allah allowed him to win.
So that Ayesha’s heart can be happy. It was a perfect example of their love. If we can do this with our spouses, there will be no shortage of love in our world.
Husband and wife traveling together signifies love
Another way to bond love between husband and wife is to go out together for a few days.
Our Prophet, who used to travel with his wife, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him. When he wanted to travel, he used to draw lotteries with the names of his wives.
He used to take the person whose name appeared in the lottery. He was one such person to travel with.
During the war of Banu Mustaliq, the Messenger of Allah – may Allah bless him and grant him peace – went on that journey with Ayesha – Radiyallahu Ta’ala Anha.
On the way back, Ayesha – Radiyallahu Taala Anhar – lost the necklace. Then the army of Muslims had to stay at a place to find the feet of Ayesha – Radiyallahu Talaiya Anha. But it could not be found.
And there was no water supply in the places where the Muslim forces were stationed. Because of this, the Muslim forces suffered a lot due to not getting water for ablution during prayers. People insisted.
The verse of Tayammum was revealed in that situation. Moreover, he shows his love for her by taking his wife for a walk.