Can husband hide things from wife in Islam?

Once, a Muslim leader said, Can a husband hide things from his wife in Islam? ‘There is room to hide a truth to a limited extent if it is necessary to satisfy the wife.’ After that statement, widespread criticism began.

But in some cases, the truth can be hidden for the wife’s happiness. However, three did not say it openly. As a result, the husbands were given a blank check for Satya Goptan.

Then the question comes if the husband is alienated to a limited extent, who will take responsibility for it by embezzling the wife’s property for a bit of time and concealing the truth to please the wife?

Can a husband hide things from his wife in Islam?

No, a husband cannot hide things from his wife. He cannot be lied to. You cannot be cheated. If you want to keep your wife happy, you have to be faithful to her. They cannot do such an act, which results in the concealment of truth to satisfy the wife.

Allah says, “And the curse of Allah is on those who are liars.” (Surah Al-Imran: 61). In another verse, Allah says, “And avoid falsehood.” (Surah Hajj: 30)

Rasulullah – sallallahu alaihi wa sallam – said, ‘Lie leads to iniquity. And wickedness leads to hell. If a person lies, his name is written as a liar before Allah.’ (Bukhari, 5629)

Abu Hurairah – Radiyallahu Anhu – narrates in the hadith that the Messenger of Allah – may God bless him and grant him peace – said, ‘There are three signs of the hypocrites: lying when speaking, breaking promises and betraying trusts.’ (Bukhari, 33; Muslim, 59).

Rasulullah – may Allah bless him and grant him peace – was asked, ‘Can a believer be a coward? He replied, yes. It has been asked, can a believer be miserly? He replied, yes. It has been asked, can a believer be a liar? He replied, No.’ (Mu’atta Malik, 2/990)

Who will go to Things Hide in Islam?

In Islam, lying, exaggerating, or resorting to tactics is sometimes allowed and is of fundamental interest.

The reasons why lying is allowed in Islam are one. It is lawful to lie in war; Two. It is permissible to lie to compromise between two parties; Three. Lying to create love and harmony between husband and wife is also acceptable.

Asma bint Yazid said, Rasulullah – SAW. He said, ‘It is not permissible to lie except in three places. It is acceptable to lie to please one’s wife, lie in war, and lie to reconcile two people. (Tirmidhi, 1939; Sahih al-Jameh, 7723)

In explaining the hadith, Imam Nabbi (R.A.) said, “By this hadith, there is scope for lying (in special cases), but it is better to limit it to tact.”

And Imam Muhammad Ibn Jarir Tabari (R.A.) said, “Lying is legal on the battlefield, meaning that it is legal to resort to ‘tricks.’” Because true lies are not valid. (Abul Fazl Zainuddin Abdur Rahim Iraqi, Tarhut-Tasrib

Why can’t the husband hide things from his wife in Islam?

A husband cannot hide anything from his wife because husband and wife are intimate friends. The Holy Qur’an mentions husband and wife as dependents of each other.

That is why the husband will not hide his thoughts from his wife. I will share everything with my wife so they don’t misunderstand.

In most families, there is a communication gap between the husband and the wife, which leads to chaos and turmoil in the family. That is why husband and wife will not keep anything secret between them. So that their family is established on a solid foundation. Therefore, Islam prohibits the husband from hiding from his wife.

When can a husband keep things hidden from his wife?

There are certain areas where a husband can keep something secret from his wife.

One of those exceptional cases is if his wife is disobedient, and there is a danger of her knowing about his thoughts and leaking those thoughts to his enemies, then he can keep the thoughts from his wife.

As mentioned in the Holy Qur’an, the wife of Lut (peace be upon him). His wife was a disobedient woman. He used to spread the thoughts of Lut – alaihis salam – among the disbelievers, among his enemies.

If one has such a wife, then good thoughts can be kept secret from that wife. So that enemies cannot harm Islam by knowing about the ideas.

Can the truth be hidden with his wife to make him satisfied?

There is limited scope for concealing the truth with him to satisfy his wife. There are instructions about this in the hadith. Again below, I mention a hadith related to Hiding things with his wife to help her.

Umm, Kulsoom – Radiyallahu Anha – said, I heard the Messenger of Allah – may God bless him and grant him peace – say, ‘Whoever tells a lie while exchanging good words to reconcile two people – he is not a liar. (Bukhari, 2546; Muslim, 2605).

Regarding the limits of lying between husband and wife, Rasulullah – Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam said, ‘One can express more than the love in the heart and speak such words that increase and perpetuate the kindness, intimacy, and sincerity of both. From this begins not evil but goodness. (Muslim, 6799; Sunan Abu Dawud, 4923).

From this hadith, we understand that to please the wife; one can exaggerate the description of her qualities and appearance and praise her cooking even if it is not delicious.

But one cannot lie about anything else. If you lie, trust will be broken, and faith will be lost. And in this way, there will be chaos in the world. While hiding the truth from the wife to a limited extent, the scope of love between the husband and wife may be limited.

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