Every wife is beautiful to her husband. And the decoration of the wife enhances that beauty many times. The beautiful dressing up of the wife enhances that beauty many times over.
This is why dressing up for her husband is very important for every wife. Every wife wants to win her heart by dressing like her husband’s mind.
But what kind of dress can be worn for a husband? What kind can not be worn? What are the rules of Islam in this case?
This is a common question of every Muslim wife. In this blog you read we are discussing this answer. So that it helps to remove all doubts.
How to do Dressing up for your husband in Islam?
The wife can wear any dress for the husband. Be it sari or lehenga or medi or anything else. She doesn’t mind wearing shorts.
But the wife should keep in mind that her husband likes to see her in any kind of dress. The husband should wear the kind of dress that he enjoys seeing his wife.
It is forbidden to go out after wearing tight fit or light dress. It is not suitable for any Muslim wife. Because it is obligatory to cover the whole body of a woman in front of others.
There is a narration in Muwatta Malik that once Hafsa bint Abdur Rahman’s uncle Ummul Ayesha came to Radiyallahu Anha. At that time he was wearing a thin veil. Ayesha (may Allah be pleased with her) tore it off and put on a thick veil. ‘
It is narrated in Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah –
Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) used to forbid women to wear kabati (a kind of white cloth made in Egypt at that time). People said that his body could not be seen in this cloth. He said that although the body could not be seen, the limbs of the body were exposed.
Therefore, Islamic scholars have instructed a Muslim woman to refrain from wearing tight-fitting and soft clothes when going out.
However, women can wear tight and fine clothes exclusively in front of their husbands. You can also wear the latest models or stylish clothes or short dresses.
Even if the wife is completely naked in front of the husband, it will not be a sin. Because Islam has declared the wife for the husband and the husband for the wife as clothing. So there is no aurah among them. They can see each other’s whole body.
Can you wear any dress for your husband?
Islamic scholars, however, forbid the wife to wear a dress for the husband in such a way as to imitate a kafir.
Abdullah bin Amr bin As – Radiyallahu Anhu – said,
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) saw me wearing two garments dyed with ‘usfur’ (small red flowers) and said, ‘These are the garments of the disbelievers; So you will not wear it. ‘(Muslim, Hadith – 207)
On the basis of this hadith and other hadiths, the ulama ‘say that wearing all the clothes which are similar to the kafirs cannot be worn. Even if it is in front of the husband.
Can you pants for your husband?
It is not difficult for a husband to wear jeans. Because pants are a garment that makes a woman’s body attractive.
And for a wife, the only place to present her body and beauty is in front of her husband. So the wife can wear pants for her husband to make herself attractive.
Many people say that pants are the clothes of non-Muslims. But this statement is not correct. Because pants are not the clothing of non-Muslims. It’s just a dress that she will wear. If you wear Muslim, you belong to Muslim and if you wear non-Muslim, you belong to non-Muslim.
Some say pants are men’s clothing so women cannot wear them. But this is not true because there are many pants in the market that are made only for the female body.
How can this kind of pants be a men’s dress? But always remember that no Muslim woman can go out wearing pants. It would be fatally forbidden.
What is the provision of hair coding for husband?
Islam supports not only dressing up but also hair dressing to win the heart of the husband. The wife can tie her head with a braid or comb in her hair.
It is the duty of a woman to make sure that her hair is not too long or too long for other men to guess. Because a woman’s beauty is a beauty, which is forbidden to reveal in front of other men.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said,
‘In the last days there will be some people in my ummah whose women will be half-naked. Their heads will be like the humps of camels. Curse them, for they are accursed. ‘
It is haram to use artificial hair or wig to show off more hair. Even if the husband wants it, it cannot be put on his head.
It is narrated on the authority of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) cursed the women who put on wigs and those who told them to put on wigs. ‘(Bukhari, Hadith: 5938)